behind the SANCTUARY name

The word SANCTUARY means a safe space—a place where someone can come to be received and held as they are. It's also a place for community, celebration, mourning, rites of passage, and rituals. In a way, SANCTUARY by Kristen Rice is a place for all of it. The darkest shadows and the brightest lights in life, and through it all, I commit to holding a space of unconditional love and non-judgment.

 

“I know how hard it is to make the decision to book a session with a spiritual reader—you never know what you're gonna get, there are so many readers out there, and readings like this are a financial investment. I just want to say, if you've arrived here to Kristen Rice, your search is over. She is the real deal.”

— ALLIE

 
 

HOW I GOT HERE:

Ten years ago, I had an experience that changed the course of my life. Until then, I had lived following a formula that was supposed to lead to happiness and “success.” I was 29, moving mindlessly from one accomplishment and milestone to another, searching for satisfaction and fulfillment.

Graduate college. Get the fancy corporate job. Travel. Get the promotion. Get my own apartment. Fall in love. Travel some more. Get the next promotion. Get a better apartment. 

But, underneath the striving, I was full of anxiety and stress. In many ways, my life was a rebellion—I didn’t want to become like my parents with constant eviction notices and trips to the pawn shop, so I modeled success based on what I thought it looked like. The longer I walked that cookie-cutter road, the more everything felt empty and eventually painful.

I DIDN’T EVEN REALIZE I WASN’T BEING TRUE TO MYSELF BECAUSE I HAD NEVER BOTHERED TO GET TO KNOW MYSELF. 

I had never asked myself fundamental questions about who I was, what I wanted, or why. And without knowing that, I was making choices that fundamentally conflicted with who I was, which left me miserable. I drank too much on the weekends and took too many prescriptions from doctors, trying to make me feel better both physically and mentally. I started to feel numb, and some days (A LOT OF DAYS), I couldn’t get out of bed. 

Despite what my life looked like to my Facebook and Instagram friends—pictures under the Eiffel Tower and yoga poses on top of a mountain—I was slowly dying a spiritual death alone in my apartment.

My world changed when I went to a women’s leadership conference in an attempt to find inspiration. I listened to Elizabeth Gilbert, Brene Brown, Kristin Neff, and many others who were opening a deeper conversation around vulnerability, belonging, and authenticity. 

I was surrounded by entrepreneurs, coaches, writers, astrologers (which I didn’t realize could be an actual career path), and women living outside the Corporate Barbie box I was in. And because I didn’t know anyone else at the conference, I wasn’t trying to be anyone other than exactly who I was at that moment. All of my protective shields came down.

I showed up completely myself, vulnerable, a bit raw from such a paradigm-shifting experience, and found a deep, meaningful connection. I found a community of women who valued and believed in the same things I believed in. I felt deeply heard and supported, and I realized throughout the weekend that much of the pain and suffering I was experiencing was a reflection of a curated image that was disconnected from my true Self. 

MY LIFE WAS A HALF-TRUTH, ONLY SHARING THE PARTS OF MYSELF THAT FELT SAFE AND EASILY ACCEPTED WHILE SELF-CENSORING THE PARTS OF ME THAT WEREN’T AGREEABLE OR HAD FUNDAMENTALLY DIFFERENT WORLD VIEWS THAN THOSE AROUND ME.

Unintentionally, I sought other people’s approval more than my own self-expression.

I had never been taught how to understand and listen to what I needed as an individual to be happy—I mean, no one is. So, I suffered for far too long, as most people are suffering now—disconnected from myself, disconnected from my true needs, wants, and desires.

And so, I changed my life—I poured gasoline, lit a match, and set fire to what I’d spent 29 years creating. I quit my job, ended relationships, and bought a one-way ticket to Asia. In the jungles of Thailand, the shell-shocked beaches of Cambodia, and the rice fields of Bali, I took the time and space to start healing my complex PTSD, come home to myself, and start asking the questions that needed asking.

When I returned to the US, my life became radically different. I trained under a PhD Clinical Psychologist to become a Behavioral Health Coach and led a team of coaches in our mission to help people heal their past and create a more aligned future. I worked with clients, managed a team, and oversaw the company’s expansion into the online world (launching group coaching programs before life coaching became a thing.)

AS I CONTINUED MY SPIRITUAL PATH AND MET NEW MENTORS WHO TAUGHT ME HOW TO STRENGTHEN MY CLAIRVOYANCE AND OTHER INTUITIVE GIFTS, I BEGAN WORKING MORE INTIMATELY WITH SPIRIT. IT BECAME HARDER TO SEPARATE THE PSYCHIC AND HEALER FROM THE COACH AND CONSULT. 

In 2017, I started my private intuitive coaching practice.

Sanctuary by Kristen Rice was birthed with the purest intentions—to help women connect to their authentic selves and disconnect from outdated stories and external conditioning. Through mentorship, deepening spiritual connection, and energy healing, the work here creates a foundation for a life lived in integrity—a life that feels good from the inside out. 

Finding your true Self is like coming home. It feels like freedom. Authenticity drives integrity, ultimately creating deep, soulful healing on an individual, community, and global level.

When women rise to their healthiest, fullest expression, they impact the world by creating more heart-centered, empathetic conversations and loving communities. Every woman who comes home to their wholeness ultimately changes the world through their example and leadership.

I could never have imagined I’d be doing this intuitive work, but I am so humbled and grateful that I get to hold the stories of so many and help light a pathway forward. 

Loving, supporting, and serving you is part of my life’s work. I’m so happy you’re here.

 

FAST FACTS

 
  • 6/2 Reflector in Human Design with a Gemini Stellium.

    The Reflector’s role in society is to feel, sense, see and reflect back to others what needs to be understood and witnessed.

    With that, when I think about the power of my work as a whole, it is truly the ability to “see” beyond what’s at face value. To see energy, emotion, information, stories unknown or untold, and the threads that tie one thing to another.

    From an astrology standpoint, I’m a Gemini Sun, Gemini Moon, and Virgo Rising.

    With five Gemini placements in my overall chart, I’m a natural communicator and use these skills to help me share what I sense from around me through my intuitive gifts and my Human Design.

    Personality wise, I’m an open-hearted Enneagram 8. I seek to live my values out loud and stay anchored in integrity along the way.

  • Originally from Kentucky, I now live in the San Francisco Bay Area in Northern California. I fill the space between SANCTUARY and my family life by investing in my personal growth, writing, and tending to my spiritual practice. I love to read and am always working on a few writing projects.

  • I have a B.A. in Cultural Anthropology from the University of Kentucky with a focus on religious studies.

    Anthropology defined: The study of human beings and their ancestors through time and space and in relation to physical character, environmental and social relations, and culture. (Webster Dictionary)

    I have always been fascinated with religion and belief systems. I remember pondering the existential questions of faith in grade school as we learned about ancient religions.

    While other classmates found it interesting that people believed there were multiple Gods, I remember thinking how certain these civilizations were that their religions were real. And how my own Christian faith believed with that same certainty and conviction that they had it right. And that all the other contemporary world religions believed that they were the path to “God.”

    How could everyone be so sure of such different things?

    I wanted to know more, to dig deeper, and understand what went into shaping people’s beliefs, behaviors, and identities. And ultimately, I think I always believed that if any of it was real, it all was. And that there was no one right way, but rather many paths to the same ultimate “place.”

A Holistic Approach: Mind. Body. Spirit.

 

certified reiki energy healer

SINCE 2015

I became certified and attuned in the Usui lineage of Reiki energy healing in early 2015 while living in a Spiritual Ashram in Cambodia. My energy healing style and technique has shifted and changed over the last seven years as I’ve continued to grow in my spiritual practice. I now shift energy through my clairvoyance, sacred geometry, and ancient practices remembered from my soul lineage. Reiki was the foundation that allowed me to reconnect to my innate healing gifts.

Behavioral Health Coach*

Since 2015

I started training under a PhD Clinical Psychologist in 2014, becoming a Behavioral Health Coach and the lead trainer of her psychology-based coaching company. I worked directly under her in a team-based, patient-care approach for five years until I left to focus solely on my private coaching practice. I guided our most complex clinical patients providing both high-touch in-person support and facilitating online group coaching programs.

*Important Legal Notice: I am not a licensed therapist or counselor*

Human Design & intuitive Readings

Since 2017

I started my private practice in 2017 when I decided to merge previous coaching experience with my spiritual knowledge and intuitive gifts. I incorporated my passion for Human Design right away and was led to the Akashic Records by Spirit in January of 2019. My work today combines the breadth of my knowledge of spiritual practice and the combination of my continued training across many healing modalities (meditation, somatic breathwork, embodied movement).

a few stats

 

“I would trust Kristen with my life. She has that magical combination of integrity, huge amounts of experience, loving care and creativity. She’s a truly talented coach and a very special human being.”

— GEMMA

 
 

A wholeness approach

BODY. ENERGY. EMOTION. SOUL. INTUITION.

I see the unseen—what exists behind personal narratives and the conscious mind. I work as a bridge between the ethereal, spiritual world of energy and “higher” realms and the everyday human experience. I help people connect to the energy around and within themselves for greater self-understanding that drives deeper connection.

I believe in an integrated, embodied approach to spirituality, honoring that the divinity around and within us is lived through our human experience. One of the great paradoxes of this world is that we are both fully human and completely divine.

WHERE SPIRITUALITY OFTEN TEACHES PEOPLE TO RUN FROM THE DARK AND REACH FOR THE LIGHT, IT’S THROUGH EMBRACING OUR SHADOWS WITH RADICAL SELF-COMPASSION AND SELF-ACCEPTANCE THAT WE CAN TRULY FEEL GROUNDED, CENTERED, AND FREE.

The answer to feeling disconnected, disassociated, and stuck isn’t reaching ‘up and out’ of daily experiences for enlightenment. It’s about finding the way ‘down and in’ to the unshakeable holy place your power lives.

The breadth of my spiritual knowledge and depth of holistic training helps my clients integrate and embody their spiritual lessons to live fully in their power. As a result, they often move through life with more agency, vitality, and confidence than ever before.

My approach helps people reconnect with:

  • their unshakable, steady, confident sense of self

  • the pieces within that need tender care

  • their core values, spiritual beliefs, and soul’s essence

  • their personal spiritual center and belief system

I HELP PEOPLE FIND THE ANSWERS THAT ARE ALREADY WITHIN, CHAMPIONING FULL SOVEREIGNTY AND SELF-RELIANCE THAT FOSTERS HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS AND POWERFUL CHOICES.

And if one of my clients ever finds themself in a dark place, I will light a torch and walk alongside them until they feel the wind behind their back—the only way out of a dark tunnel is through.

 
 
 

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Whether you’re looking for a one-time intuitive reading, a foundational package of Akashic Record and Human Design readings, or a custom and personal signature coaching program there’s a sacred soul offering to meet you on your personal growth journey. Unlock and reconnect to the purpose of this life’s incarnation.